As young mothers of small children, we all know how hard it is to provide on our own, espicially in a small rural community in Newfoundland Canada...So here I am, new to this thing of writing and creating blogs and posts, but here to help all of you in the same position I am.
I have two small children (a son who is turning 7 this year and a daughter who will be 6 next year) and with my income, it is hard to provide for them, but recently getting married to a wonderful man has helped, but it doesn't mean that their BIOLOGICAL FATHER should get away with not providing for his children.
So YOU WANT TO TRAIN YOUR DEADBEAT? Whether you are a single mother or a single father, here is what you do; DON'T BACK DOWN, it is your right to have all of his financial information, and if he doesn't agree to you having it, make the first step, apply for an application and take the DEADBEAT to court. Get yourself a lawyer, and all the information you can possibly get your PAWS on.
The father of my two children has money to buy a brand new truck, car, snowmobile, fireplace, leather couch sets, internet, phone, digital cable and TWO OTHER CHILDREN and a step daughter with his new wife. But yet applies the fact that he wants to pay child support but can not afford to.
This ladies and gentlemen is more than enough reason to know when enough is enough.....Don't be afraid, he can't hurt you. You made a big decision to leave HIS/HER sorry a$$ now do whats best for your children. It isn't free raising them. (pampers, formula, food, school clothes, school supplies, hospital visits, medication, etc.) it all cost money and a lot of money with that.
You don't have to settle with maybe's or HIM/HER telling you they have no income or can't afford to, because, even if they have to pay $50 a month, that's $50 in your pocket that you didn't have. If you can not afford a lawyer, theres always legal aid, thats where I went, and thats where 5 years of my life, my childrens lives, went into. Sure it costs money to go to court, but in the end, as long as you are HONEST and tell the TRUTH you will get what belongs to you and your children.
I've been going through court for 5 years this coming november, and It is only now as of SEPTEMBER 30TH that I was told that this man must pay his children and give me 24hr notice before visitations......
So ladies and gentlemen, play hardball, don't let them get over your time, there's a reason they are called DEADBEAT PARENTS, if you seed them, love and feed them.
IF YOU NEED ANY MORE HELP ON THIS TOPIC OF DISCUSSION, YOU CAN FIND ME HERE AND I WILL TRY TO HELP IN ANY WAY POSSIBLE TO BRING YOUR CHILDREN JUSTICE......THEY DESERVE IT!!!!!
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